17/08/2010

Why Women do not like Nice Guys

male-sweat-1.jpgMany guys try to be “nice” with the women of their dreams and end up being dejected. There is actually no point in chasing her around or buying her expensive gifts. Majority of men are clueless regarding how and when women feel that enviable emotion of attraction towards some men. Body language plays an important role in grabbing attention from women. From your physical cues, women generally estimate whether you deserve another glance or not. There are certain subtle tests, which are made by women constantly.

In most cases, it goes unnoticed by men as it occurs spontaneously as part of the conversation itself. It is found that more beautiful women do these tests frequently when compared to their less beautiful counterparts. Those guys who fail in spotting these tests and dealing them effectively become instant failures. Your behaviour to other women who pass by, casual references made about your women colleagues etc all form part of these tests.

Seeing things differently is what is most important. Never consider “nice” and “attraction” as two sides of the same coin. They are entirely unrelated. You also need to develop your observation skills. Even the slightest behavioural change from the part of your woman should not be missed. Of course, you do not have to let her know that you have noted it. But be sure that you have made suitable alterations from your part in order to keep her interest arrested for long. Always try to be yourself. Pretensions are sure to do more harm than good.

Women, whether they are college students or high professionals love to be flattered. But it is never a wise step to blindly coat them in flattery paint. If you genuinely feel something as “suiting” never ever hesitate in complimenting her. She certainly deserves a pat on her shoulder for any sensible act.

‘Sorry’ and ‘Thank you’ are the two words that should be kept ready at your tongue tip to use whenever need arises.

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04/08/2010

Women Think Macho Men Are Sexier Than Modest Men

same-sex-couple.jpgScientists want to determine if "liberating men from the bonds of traditional masculinity would be beneficial."

"Modesty," as it was categorized in the study, may make men feel good about themselves, but it's a real turn-off to women as far as sexual attraction goes.

The research protocol called for groups of female and male volunteers to watch a 15 minute video of job interviews, with various male and female actors.  Though their qualifications for the jobs were about the same, some of the actors were in command of the event, very self-assured; others were more modest about their capabilities.

The volunteers, 132 females and 100 males, rated the job candidates (actors) very differently.  Women linked male modesty with weakness, unemployability, and un-sexy.  Men job candidates that demonstrated assertiveness and competitiveness were perceived as having high status, more able, and more sexually appealing.

This is rather a surprising finding, I think, at a time when so many of societal gender rules seem to have changed, certainly during the past 40 or so years.  Interesting too is that earning potential is so entwined with sexual drive in women.

Male volunteers did not associate either the confident females or the modest females as being more sexually desirable than the other.

The researchers were dutiful to point out that neither personality type - macho or modest - has been shown to have any effect on hiring potential, but what if you are being interviewed by a woman?

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09/07/2010

What Men Like in Women?

happy_couple.gifWe fear them, we love them as we can...that's what we are...we are Men and we love women. We like many things in women that we don't have and we love them for that. It is commonly known that God first created the Men and then he felt that it looks so very empty and incomplete if the world would be only with men. Then he thought of creating women and was happy with his creation, but later he had been really worried with this kind of his creation. So it is the similar situation with the men. Neither they are happy with women nor can they ignore loving or liking them.

There are a number of things that attract men towards women. For men it is the very few things that are enough for them to fall in love with these women and they can be that the way women walk. Many women have a certain grace and smoothness to the way they move that men just don't have. The every move of a women is appreciated by men and this is the fact why they are at the back of these women and feel that they can never be over them. The women in a sense seem regal to them.

Women are soft. They are delicate and not as rough and tough as they are that is the men are. It is so nice to touch a women instead of a men. You feel the tenderness just by a touch. The very feeling of affection and care is felt in her presence. She is the person who can support men and give full zest and enthusiastic feel in them. They are soft to touch as well as soft at heart and makes men also soft in their approach.
Hair. Women can do some amazing things with their hair if it's of any decent length. They can wear it up, wear it down, curl it, braid it, stick it in a ponytail, whatever works. Black women are especially good at changing up their styles successfully. How do they do it? This is the thing which men cannot afford to do and as such cannot change their looks so frequently. Thus these are very few things that attract the men towards women. They can look and present themselves so differently every time and can make themselves liked by men.

The women have another thing that attract men is that they have a different way of seeing the world. Without getting into the whole emotional/logical thing, it is true that women just see things differently than men. They notice different angles or aspects of a situation that most men will miss, and having women involved on projects like: work, church, planning a camping trip, whatever, helps broaden men's view about life. Though women don't always present a logic but still they have a different way of proving themselves which is unique and men get so thrilled with the angle they present. Women sometimes present angles in a very simple way but it might bring a lot of meaning top men as they always search for meanings in it. So in a way men want to be dependant on them as they are sure that these women will surely take care of them and will support them in need.

Women have the best laughs and this can ease all the pressures in life. Women don't usually take things as seriously as men and makes men take things easier. There are some other physical aspect of women that men envy and this surely attracts them towards women. Their beauty form all aspects attracts men. The shape of a woman's sexy body, the smell of their body, the feeling they present are fabulous. The shape of their body and most specifically the shape of their breasts attracts men. There are certain parts of the body of a women that make men thrilled and want to explore women. The smell of her body makes me thrilled and attract me towards her is the very common statement from men. So parts of body and sometimes the chubby women and their medium sized breasts attract men as they do not possess it.

The woman's smartness, intelligence and along with that the maternal instinct make them so different form men. A woman's often eccentric and irrational behaviour, which from a distance can provide men with endless hours of amusement.Women are different because of these aspects and they will continue to be making men mad about them and in this way it will continue to work!!!

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